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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Not really.

Only because this is 2024 & our society doesn’t necessarily look down on people who have children w/out being married.

Reason being is that more people are independent now, and they make their own decisions in their lives for them + them only.

Not based on what society or other people dictate.

Sure it is okay to believe in tradition and if that is how you think that is clearly okay to do.
Depending on how important this issue is to you it can affect the dating dynamics that modern dating can entail.

I personally wouldn’t write off a man who had a child out of wedlock just based on that one fact……
Other things would impact whether or not I would date him such as his relationship w/his child now + whether or not he is playing an active part in that child’s life currently.

In other words, the present would be more important to me than the past in a case like this.[/quote]

Also look at the childs mother relationships with the dad. My ex wife has turned into an insane lunatic and barbaric person once I started dating. She even started stalking my gf, lying to our kids and eventually I broke up with her. I will have to go the legal route next time.

So I think that's the most important thing to look for. Similarly for men too, do your homework and make sure you are not dealing with a deranged and jealous ex partner. Some people really can't accept a break up and become rather animalistic once their ex partners are romantically involved with new people [/quote]

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