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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My boyfriend of just under a year has started telling me "I'll let you get this" or "Next round is on you" when we are out. To be clear, I am NOT the type of person who expects a man to pay for everything. If we are nickel and diming each other, I paid $200 for dinner last week and paid for a dinner last night (because I was the one who wanted to go out and picked the restaurant, so I offered to pay). It bothers me because I would never say to him, after paying for dinner, "Okay, next round is on you" because that just seems rude. Thoughts? [/quote]

Hi honey,

I have a 61 yo boyfriend who is exactly like this. They don’t change, it gets worse as they get more conditioned to it being ok to just be sort of unkind, and the bad feeling you have will bloom into dislike. I can say that I just about hate my boyfriend now. He’s such an a$$ but I’m stuck with him because  he he now lives with me and pays, you guessed it, exactly half of the rent. And I want that money.

Good luck and if you aren’t already financially with him, don’t go any further. You won’t feel loved by him.

Best wishes to you [/quote]

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