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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] Take it up with G-d, honey. Jews reach adulthood when they become a Bar/Bat Mitzvah. They are permitted to read from the Torah, which is no small thing. If you don't subscribe to this belief, that's fine, but it's not like the OP's neighbor made it up. And certainly they are not being rude to exclude a child from an adult occasion. Not to mention -- are you really saying you think a 9-year-old has equal capacity to understand this occasion as a 13-year-old? That's absurd.[/quote] If no one under 13 is ever allowed at a Bar or Bat Mitzvah, that would be one thing. It would be like non-LDS members not being allowed to attend an LDS wedding. Those are the rules. But in this case, the BM family (not a higher being) has decided not to invite someone. That's their call, to which they are entitled, but snookums, it doesn't need to be taken up by anyone with anyone. It's a hosting question, not a theological one. [/quote]
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