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[quote=Anonymous]Just pass the mentalist to him- you’ve taken on birth control for YEARS and you are done. Time for him to take the lead in the conversation- condoms, sure. Do that. Pull out if he wants, but personally I wouldn’t rely on this option as the woman.  It’s his turn to take on this element with his body . You aren’t saying it is an ultimatum, he can decide with you but it is perfectly ok to say you are done with manipulating your body. Take care of yourself.

I said the same post kids. I did birth control for yrs, IVF (why did I worry about birth control) and then had the babies. I had done my part, his time to step in for the partnership. He was fine with it. Condoms foe a few yrs then he had the surgery, fantastic! He decided on surgery, I was happy to support it.

For now it’s an issue where he doesn’t want you telling him what to do- so just take that element away. You aren’t telling him what to do- you are coming to your partner saying my body has done enough, let’s problem solve options. [/quote]

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