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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Calling "bullshit" and using personal insults certainly looks like it was triggering, apologies if that offended you.[/quote]

Are you a certified psychiatrist or psychologist? If not, you do not have any idea what is triggering. I accept your apology.

[quote]No, I've never been in a physical fight. Not sure what that has to do with terms having a sexist connotation. I actually try not to use gendered insults (p***y, c**t, etc) as they are generally demeaning to women specifically. Nerd is not gendered. I'm sorry if you had a rough time growing up as a nerd, many wear it as a badge of honor these days but it wasnt always so easy.
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Men are often called p***ies, and it is demeaning to apply this term to a man. Yes, nerd is gendered when used as an insult. I had a great childhood. My point was that you are not a man and cannot understand the dynamic of one man (or boy) insulting another such that it starts a fight. As men cannot understand specific themes that apply only to women, women (like you) should not explain to men what it feels like to be a man.

[quote]3 daughters is a lot! Too bad you didnt teach them to be girls girls, and instead perpetuated these sexist stereotypes and harmful reductive terminology.
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You have no idea what I taught my daughters, and it is awful that you think you can tell me what I taught them. I did teach them to use the rules of English grammar when they right (a lesson you should have learned.)
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[quote]I don't care much what you think of my writing. Your overuse of trite is perhaps trite in itself![/quote]

Writing poorly is a sign that the writer does not care what they are doing when writing. You seem to let your anger outweigh the need to edit your work.
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I responded to you in good faith and tried to explain the sexist trope you asked about and why I try not to do the same thing. I didn't realize you were a man, going to mansplain my feelings and insult my children, writing and general life outlook.

Nerd is not a gendered insult. P***y is a gendered insult, and you only find it demeaning to men because it's a female term.

L-o-fu[i]c[/i]king-L to the bolded. Do you not see the irony of mansplaining my entire post about how I dont like putting women in boxes because of my experience as a woman and my girls' experience but yet saying I cant possibly grasp the experience of men? Are you this tone deaf? You have tried to say many times that I am wrong, that [i]my own lived experiences[/i] are wrong, and that you know better.

No, I'm not going to carefully curate and edit posts on an anon forum, get over it. I will no longer be responding to you, you clearly don't even care what I have to say about the [i]exact topic you asked me about[/i]. [/quote]

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