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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]People who are super productive, how do you do it? I have a relatively laid back job (fed government lawyer), but I have a ton of home and garden projects I would like to do as well as just spending more time with friends and family. I’m fine and happy in my career and nuclear family life but I know I could be doing so much more around the house. I need to declutter and fix my garden, do some small renovations and plan some larger ones, as well as work on personal projects like writing (just for myself, not to publish). I have the money to do it I just… don’t. All I do is my job, which is not terribly stressful, minimal exercise (about 30 mins most days, but I go through lazy periods), take care of my child who is in daycare and relatively easy, and cook. I've started to have a cleaner come one a week ever since having a child so my house is pretty clean but it could be so much nicer. I haven’t even hung pictures in the 8 years I’ve been living here! And my child’s nursery is just half done. Every night I plan on doing so many projects in the morning but then I do the bare minimum. It’s almost like I don’t have enough to do so I do nothing. How can I get out of this paralysis? My husband is very supportive and doesn’t really care and really picks up the slack for me in many ways but I feel so guilty. I’ve long suspected I have ADHD but even getting a diagnosis seems so overwhelming. How do I get out of this paralysis?[/quote]

You do not have ADHD; you are simply lazy.  Do not stress over what you aren’t getting done.  Carry on as usual.  [/quote]

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