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[quote=Anonymous]Married to a surgeon. This past (holiday) weekend was specifically scheduled as a family weekend with both of us and kids. DH got called in for emergency surgery both Saturday and Sunday all afternoon. Then when he returned he was so revved up he needed to decompress—wanted a drink, then we were out of sync bc DCs and I had already spent all afternoon waiting for him instead of doing what we had planned to do all together. Then when home he was continuously called by his team with questions and updates, and also decisions about whether to accept another case(s). We wound up cancelling those plans and eventually going out for dinner/doing other things. Both times he got called in all I said was, “good luck with the case!” You can’t begrudge someone this career if you married it. It’s a service profession, other people come before you—even before your family.[/quote]
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