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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think people need to distinguish between a guy who cheats and a guy who manages to be honest but still find multiple women who are willing to have sexual relationships with him despite the guy's having sex with other women.

For me, I sometimes find women who just want to keep things very casual and non-exclusive.  No problem with them.

There are other women who want to be with me but say they want exclusivity. I basically tell those women I care about them but don't want to make promises I can't keep.  Some of them walk at that point.  I don't even get to that conversation for some of them because they make their expectations pretty obvious early.

A few women like that will make out with me on a sofa or in a car or sometimes even on a bed, so we can get a sense of chemistry, but they won't have full sex unless we are exclusive.  Or they won't have sex a second time.

Some of those come back a few days or weeks later and tell me they want to see me anyway.  They just prefer me to the guys who are willing to be exclusive.

Four women at one time would be a lot at any one time.[/quote]

I am one of these women who never have sex before his assurances he's not sleeping with others/I'm confident he doesn't. It's just nauseating to have sex like that for me. Yes, I make out on sofa/kiss etc to get a sense if he makes me hot.

This "exclusivity" is only sexual: all that a man is required to do is stop sleeping with others. I am not asking him to be my BF or any sort of commitment beside sexual that early on. He can still go out with other women socially, but I do expect him available to me for sex over the weekend, a good level of communication etc. But if someone is not ready to stop sleeping with others in parallel with me, and his communication is sporadic IMHO they are just not into me, and I have to pass. I don't see much value to me in casual sex vs female electronic health devices. I never focus seriously on these connections and normally able to find someone to be exclusive in 4-6 months if I don't get "stuck" in these temporary casual relationships.

I do get that some other women are ok with casual, or do it out of hope for something bigger. I don't have this hope if he wants to sleep with others while sleeping with me, and I do not want him at that point, anyway.
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