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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My girlfriend and I met via online dating and we are deeply in love. However, we have an ongoing debate about walking dates as a first date and I would like to hear some opinions.

She believes it is a sign of disrespect and that the man who invites her on a walking date just doesn't want to spend any money.

I on the other hand believe it is just fine as a first date, as you get to know someone in a casual way.[/quote]

What was your first date with her, OP? Is this a conflict about her thinking you were disrespectful, or is she observing something in general, such that this is really a very stupid thing to debate about?[/quote]

We went for coffee which we both enjoyed. If you have not got anything better to do than post nasty comments,then do t even bother posting.[/quote]

If you had a nice first date with her that met both of your needs, why are you discussing other men's "disrespectful" first date strategies? If she thinks those dates were disrespectful, fine. I wouldn't. You clearly don't. But she is her own person with her own needs. It sounds like her main complaint is that she found a lot of the men she met online did not want to put any effort into getting to know her or going on real dates. She does not seem to have that complaint with you. Problem solved.[/quote]

The problem is not solved, because she still feels bitter about it and is sometimes even angry about it[/quote]

Wow that’s insane. Literally insane. I’m a woman who married the guy I was dating at 18 and we were super broke for many years. We have money now and I still love walking dates, dates to play tennis things like that are truly my favorite.[/quote]

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