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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Any living situation can work, if you are both on the same page. 
You seem to want the roommate/coparent option, which is valid. I’m not getting g what spouse wants - you say you both have ruled out divorce -  to work towards getting back to a real relationship?
I guess you can talk more to diss out if spouse wants something. Maybe they are on the same page as you are, but are just grieving the loss of relationship/options. [/quote]

Yes, they want some sort of relationship, but again, they acknowledge things have gone too far to ever be like a traditional, loving marriage. I guess they still want some degree of intimacy and emotional support that I'm unable, or at least unwilling, to provide.[/quote]

Did you provide emotional support before? [/quote]

Some, although that has admittedly always been a source of conflict. Once the kids came along I lost whatever energy I had for dealing with that. And now I simply do not care.[/quote]

So what do you want OP?

Just hit the RESET button, no wife, no house, no kid, no SN kid. Just give up and walk away from it?

Time to show your mettle OP and RISE to the occasion. Be the man and rock your family needs. Drive things forward and for the better, bit by bit. Prove your character.

Men, women, wives, husbands have had to do just that, for centuries.

Enough of this life is hard BS. Life IS usually hard. You accept that and do your best. Right now OP is doing his worst.

Go regroup and come back and do your best. bit by bit. [/quote]

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