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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What is with these arbitrary rules about what percent of the class must be invited. Getting excluded from a party because you are a bully is the natural consequence for this child’s behavior. I would feel zero guilt about leaving her out, and I would not exclude other friends from the party because of some arbitrary rule about less than 50 percent. I have more sympathy for “mean girls” when they are in K and 1st and still learning. By 5th grade, you’ve had plenty of time to be taught appropriate social behavior.[/quote] This absolutely. The girl who is unkind reaps what she sows. No invitation from a girl you are cruel to at school. And not inviting some of the other girls just to protect the cruel girl? How is that kind to them? Eleven is old enough to learn that actions have consequences. Don't invite this girl, OP, and don't feel any guilt about it. [/quote]
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