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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I had a bully at this age, and if my mother had forced me to invite her to my birthday, I would simply have declined having a party at all. Inviting this cruel child into my house would simply have given her more fodder to torment me with. People have gone nuts in the name of inclusion. This isn’t fair to your child, OP. Do not invite her.[/quote]

Your parents needed to teach YOU better techniques to deal with her and to not become a target.  That is where they went wrong.  I had some girls target my daughter because she is a year younger than the class and she is tiny.  I told her not to play with them and to snap back.  For example one girl would say “you can’t play with us because you’re a baby”, then she would snap back “yes, I’m younger, but I’m the smartest one here.  You’re just HUGE!”. Luckily the girl wasn’t overweight, but she was very tall.  Snapping back actually gets the girls to stop, or at least in my daughter’s class.  She’s still not friends with them, but it doesn’t really matter.  We still invite them to our parties, and they never show, hmm wonder why. . .[/quote]

Victim-blaming, how lovely. And you’re proud your daughter is insulting people based on their size. Found the bully right here. [/quote]

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