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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Spend time laughing together. [/quote]

I agree. My husband and I were driving to dinner tonight and he had me in stitches over something incredibly stupid. He’s the only person who makes me laugh that way and we’ve been married forever. [/quote]

I'm sure laughing together doesn't hurt, but I am very skeptical about how big an element laughter is on the path to getting your wife hot and bothered. I make my wife laugh a lot. It doesn't lead to much heat in the bedroom. In fact, I have made a lot of women laugh quite a bit over the years and they weren't exactly throwing themselves at me. (As some rando on the Internet, you'll have to trust me - I'm pretty funny. I'm not an Adonis but I'm not physically repulsive either.) Anyway, my "lived experience" as the kids say, doesn't suggest that there is a strong correlation between laughter and sex.

So maybe it's a certain kind of laughing together? Giggling over dry wit maybe isn't it? [/quote]

There are two parts in relationships: avoiding negative feeling and adding positive feelings. It’s hard to resent the person you are laughing with. But you still have to add on the positive side of the equation too. For some people, laughing does that. But I’m sorry your wife isn’t in the category. :([/quote]

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