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[quote=Anonymous]Op again.  These comments are helpful. To those who say an activity partner is enough, it’s not for me.  My spouse would not take care of me when I’m ill, be patient with me if I were  disabled, etc.  He barely tolerates me, but loves our kid.  I “gray rock” the situation as someone else said and ask nothing of him emotionally.  He hasn’t been helpful or supportive when friends and family have been sick, he’s not interested in hearing about my day, etc.  We enjoy hiking and sight seeing with our kid and we both find her entertaining, so we generally enjoy weekends….but the second she’s not there, it’s clear I’m the last person he wants to see. We both work from home and he eats lunch in his office to avoid me.  Again, when our kid is around, we are both pretty happy. She’s seen us fight, but only a few times/year.  For the most part, she experiences us as fun and engaged. But when she’s not there, my partner is dismissive and doesn’t talk to me.  He’s admitted that he doesn’t love me.  Our marriage wasn’t arranged, but we were both in our mid/late 30s, got along well-ish and ignored lots of problems because we felt pressure to marry and have a kid. Not ideal, but it’s what I did during an insecure period of my life.[/quote]

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