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Reply to "I have a tumor, DH doesn't care. WWYD?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What do you want from him exactly? Is this cancer tumor? [/quote] I want to be able to talk to my spouse about how scared and worried I am without him getting angry at me (as though he thinks I did something to cause this just to annoy him). I also want him to ask me how I'm doing once in a while. I want to feel seen during a difficult time, and not ignored. I think my expectations are pretty realistic.[/quote] [b]I know this will feel like a pile on,[/b] but how often do you ask him The same? How HE is doing? Do you see him during this difficult time? Most oncology services have professional mental and spiritual Health contacts, please seek them out. [/quote] Np It is a pile on and I'm assuming Op's dh probably shuts down any talk about his feelings/health too! Pp you are a real jerk. When you are sick and worried I hope someone calls you out for not considering other people's feelings![/quote]
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