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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am a fat, dumpy, happily married woman and am sure I could remarry quickly if anything happened to my DH.  DH’s divorced friends tell him that they wouldn’t be divorced if their wives had been more like me…laid back, optimistic, sense of humor and easy to get on with.

I think most never-married women and men in their 40s likely are rigid and controlling even down to their ideas about what they want in a relationship.  Or they have mental issues that send out red flags to potential mates.  And at least half of the divorced ones are too probably, but you can’t be certain there because the other half could have been the cause.[/quote]

Exactly. Man here. Kindness was the 1st thing I used to look for, so important!
Then I looked for sense of humor, her being genuine, intelligence (not necessarily her advanced education), and availability. 
Easy going, not at extremes politically either side.
Responsible financially (notice, I'm not saying rich).
Later compatibility in bed which was not rushed.
And have the ability to honestly & enthusiastically commit to an exclusive relationship with no desire to revisit past relationships.
Did I say she needs to possess kindness?[/quote]

Man here, and completely agree. I will add that being into having a family and having a nice home life were super important to me.[/quote]

Exactly: kind, wants to have kids, wants to keep the home and life nice

Perfecto. [/quote]

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