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[quote=Anonymous]The first two examples are rude; when someone asks a question directed specifically to one other person, it behooves the latter to respond.  It doesn’t have to be a lengthy response.

Putting out a general invitation to a larger group (like the book club) is different, at least to me.  I try to respond in these cases, but since it’s not an invitation specifically to me, I also feel less invested.  If I want to spend time with one person or a small group, I’m very clear that I want their specific company.  Throwing it out there is less appealing when my time is so limited, unless it’s an activity I absolutely love.

I do think the excuses of busyness and text messages are just that.  People see those they want to see (which can include no one).  If spending time with someone is a priority for you, express that clearly.  If someone extends an invitation to you and you really want to go, but can’t, tell them so explicitly: “I’d love to see you but [activity] won’t work.  Are you free on [different date]?”[/quote]

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