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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The obvious answer is the next time she mentions she needs to lose weight (since you said she knows) tell her you’ve been wanting to eat healthier too and volunteer to make changes like taking over shopping and meal planning and carving out time together in your schedules to exercise.

You wait for her to ask for help and then you provide it. Considering how slender you are, you are probably naturally a thinner person (not saying you aren’t healthy but it’s likely food is not a problem for you). If it’s really important to you, you will do as much work as she does to help her achieve your goal.[/quote]

This is all you can do. Bringing it up yourself will hurt her, not matter your intention or how much you wordsmith. If you love her, and I'm going to assume you do since she's your wife and the mother of your child, then you should care about not hurting her more than you care about your preferences for her body. Being attracted to her is important, but good luck being attracted to a woman whose confidence you shattered with your cruelty. [/quote]

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