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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm sorry, OP.  Life is rarely ever fair.

I know it sounds trite, but try to make lemonade out of lemons.

Are you open for adoption?

If not, the pros of being childless means you can do whatever you want in life.  Having kids is hard on a marriage and yourself.   Just read the parenting forum for examples.

You can still be happy without a child, but you have to be willing to find something else in your life that makes you happy.

I have two kids, and I love them dearly, but if I didn't have kids, I would travel the world, which is what DH and I started to do before the kids came.  We could've also retired early if we didn't have kids.

Good luck to you, OP.  Find something else that makes you happy.[/quote]

This is tone deaf advice from someone who has kids to someone who wants them and can't conceive easily.[/quote]

To OP, 36 is doable for IVF. Wishing you strength and my suggestion is while deleting Facebook, stop coming to this site as well and find decorated infertility groups/sites instead or you will get more  tone deaf comments or full on “God’s plan,” which at one point you may want to hear, but suspect not now.[/quote]

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