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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OMG I can't get past page two of this thread.  Who the heck are you people.  The kind of conversation OP had with the kids was the kind of thing that happens with normal healthy people all the time!  Saying aw I was hoping to watch that with you is not damaging to kids, guilt tripping or whatever nonsense you PPs are going on about?  WTF?

OP, your husband is totally wrong.
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I had the same reaction but I think we have to remember that they are not in a healthy happy marriage where positive intent is assumed and everyone can relax around each other. If someone is looking for a way to be offended they will find one.

In any case I would be deeply unhappy in this marriage and I guess would just minimize contact as much as possible until I could get out, living this way sounds hellish [/quote]

OP here.

Yes this is what it is. I’m so tired of living with someone who assumes bad intent. This was what the therapists who I showed the correspondence flagged as a sign of BPD (splitting). It was much more extreme before. Like very innocuous things would result in paranoid outbursts and threats to call police.

I set up the parenting schedule as a way to minimize contact. I tried to get a ground rules agreement on communication for the same reason but haven’t been successful yet.

I know it’s awful. I am trying to buy time to figure out the best way out.[/quote]

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