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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If it’s an affair, not a one time thing, the perpetrator will be caught up in a fantasy, which means they won’t be “there” for you. They will seem distracted, forget or disregard obligations, be glued to their phone. Weirdly they also may tend to be more critical of others for moral failings. Projection to draw your attention over to someone else as being a bad person, not him/her.   [/quote]

Yep. My spouse talked about his best friend and how awful he was about cheating/infidelity, etc. It was like testing the waters and aksi serves to make you think they have some morality-ethics-empathy.  They often have a weird disconnect. For example, “I never say anything bad about my wife and always talk highly of her—so therefore I’m there mind they don’t think their cheating is bad or like the other guy’s—because hey- I love my wife.

We also had a running joke about his “mistress”.  Well- I’ll be damned he actually had one.  It’s a complete mind fkkkk.[/quote]

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