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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m on OPs side. If it were my husband it would be a no for me. Husband is using funeral as an excuse to ditch her with the kids while he goes to party with his college buddies. No where did it say she was welcomed to come. This woman is dead they have been separated for 23 years there is honestly no need for him to go to this funeral. This woman nor his college buddies are active people in their current lives who they see or speak with regularly. He needs to stay home [/quote]

I'm really glad my husband and I support each other by taking turns with weekends away so we get to spend time with our friends. I've gone on several girls' weekends, he's gone on ski trips and camping trips, and it's been great. We've also left our kids with family and gone on vacations together, too. I'm so glad my husband and I not only encourage each other to spend time with friends, but we see weekends alone with the kids as a fun chance to focus on the kids, not as a chore. I can't imagine thinking that spending a weekend solo parenting was some big chore and that I was "stuck" with them. I enjoy being with my kids! Probably because DH sometimes supports me in having weekends away!

Some of you sound so sad, honestly. [/quote]

Yeah, shouldn't we root for our spouses? Like, I want him to be fulfilled in all areas of his life including socially, and he wants the same for me?

-wife whose husband is mountain biking with buddies in Moab right now[/quote]

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