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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP: look for a man who is not mentally ill, for starters.[/quote]

This.

No chronic executive functioning issues either.

Have them plan a vacation soup to nuts- without paying off the concierge to do it, or a friend.

See if they stick up for you (or whither away) when someone’s scamming you for a repair or at a store.

Do they offer up their opinions on things, people or events or just waft through life tagging along

Do they have fun (and sensible) ideas for what to do on weekends, trips or some evenings? Or ask you or wait to be told?

Are they proactive and handy? Do they see something broken and fix it shortly thereafter or arrange a repairman? Or do they ignore it for the Magic Fairy to take care of?  Same for overflowing garbage can, oil changes, broken doors, health appts.

Can they resolve personal conflicts with civil communication? Or do they gaslight, stonewall, ignore, get angry, deflect or blame?

Do they take responsibility for doing or not doing something they should have? Or messing up or forgetting? Are they able to apologize and move on- or do they double down and start an argument or litany of excuses?

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