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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is one of those things that is a Rohschacht test for how we view our place in the world. I can't understand the advice about not giving her the attention or satisfaction because I don't view life, or other people's attention, like a contest to be won. We're all connected, and our actions impact others. Being given the opportunity to make amends to someone you've harmed is a gift, not some kind of middle school faux paus. If the OW can understand this, then she will respond to the humanity in OP's message. If she can't, then her lack of emotional maturity is its own punishment, and however she lashes out from that is a nothingburger to someone at peace with herself.

Of course, there's an inverse relationship between emotional maturity and getting involved in an affair, so the OP needs to keep expectations for an appropriate response very low. If she still wants to proceed because speaking her truth matters to her, that's totally fine. Not acting out of fear of earning the derision of someone who clearly lacks good judgment is silly.[/quote]

You post is too long and reeks of drama.[/quote]

I think it sounds like a minty fresh new elementary school teacher. Opportunity to make amends to someone you’ve harmed, indeed.[/quote]

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