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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I used to go to a dive bar, but it was closed down. I need a new one . 
I walk into any bar/restaurant as if I own the place. I used to be a bartender. I need a bartender, bar seat, and a beer. I don't even need people around me.They can all rush home up above on street while I'm chilling.
Ok, op, which bar? I'll go check him out. He will never know you sent me.[/quote]

She said he goes to random different ones.  This is all fishy to me, especially since she only found out about it by credit card receipts.[/quote]

There are several of you who keep making inferences from the fact that she "found out about it by checking credit card receipts."  I think the only thing she found out was that he was drinking beer.  She said that he has answered the cell phone when she has called while he is in these places and she's mentioned she's heard the background noise.  She apparently thought he was somewhere else that was noisy with possible television in the background and didn't realize that he was at a bar getting a drink.  But he wasn't doing anything fishy and he wasn't trying to hide anything.  He just didn't think that a 5-15 min side trip on the way home was significant enough to mention.

Most people who stop at Starbucks or Panera on the way to work for 5-15 min to grab a coffee and a pastry wouldn't think that it was worth mentioning, so why would a 5-15 stop on the way home be worth mentioning.  Do you all mean to say that you mention every time you stop for coffee or to put in gas in the car or any one of other errands to your spouse?  That sounds like a lot of tedium in your daily conversations.  I really don't want to hear a blow by blow of my spouse's commute or errands.[/quote]

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