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Reply to "Husband compliments classically “good looking families” in public. How to make him stop?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] Paying for a stranger, unless it's clear they're in need, is not appropriate. I would not appreciate such a gesture, and would rather donate my time and money to people in need, not random strangers who can afford their restaurant meal. Also, to answer another poster, it's NOT okay to stick to complimenting people who look like you. If you do that, please stop. It's internalized discrimination, and it's racist when the majority race does this for their fellows, since it exacerbates that group's cultural and socio-economic dominance. I'm not saying that the actions of one individual will have a measurable impact on the world. But it's the mindset behind it that's problematic, as well as the behaviors you're modeling for your children and all the observers around you. So OP's husband is out of line, and OP's job is to explain this to him.[/quote] This!!![/quote]
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