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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If she finds out and finds out YOU knew and didn’t tell her, she’s never going to want to speak to you again.  It feels like a DOUBLE betrayal.  Anyone who knew and didn’t tell me, or aided in an alibi are dead to me.[/quote]

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It feels like a stab in the back a “good” friend knew and didn’t say a word.[/quote]

Nevermind the further betrayal of her if she ever finds out and finds out you knew and didn’t tell her,

What kind of person are YOU and could you live with yourself long term if you make the choice, right now, to begin the daily long term betrayal of one of your closest friends by not telling her what you know? You will be looking her in the face and being a liar every single day of the rest of your friendship. Are you really that person??

If you have any suspicion that you don’t know her as well as you think - that she might be a woman who is fine with infidelity, or has a DADT policy or even an open relationship, and that she might be embarrassed for you to know that - then find a way to tell her about the suspected infidelity anonymously. Text from a burner phone, send an email from a throwaway account. If you’ve got some spare cash to splash, hire a PI to get the solid evidence of cheating documented and have the PI present it to her as product of an anonymously funded investigation.

Or keep on keeping on and being a liar by omission.[/quote]

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