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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am going to disagree with everyone else, as I think you will drive him out of your house.  Sure, you won't see her anymore, but you'll also lose your son.

I would ask your son what's his end game? Does he intend to marry this girl, or is he just an excuse for her to escape her bad home life? And if he does intend to marry her you need to stop kicking her out. And if they are so close, how do you not know more about it?  We have helped our kids friends in a bad situation before - maybe this girl needs a place to be safe, and your son is just the current out.  [/quote]

No, she won’y. He hasn’t even had a part-time job. He isn’t going to be able to work full-time, with or without going to school in addition, and pay for, and manage, an apartment and all utilities himself.

You have much, much more patience than I do, OP. The first time I heard him apologize to his girlfriend about you telling him she needs to go home after being in your house 12 hours a day for days on end, I would have very pointedly corrected that behavior in front of her. If it happened a second time, she would no longer be welcome in the home my DH and I pay for.[/quote]

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