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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I think one of the reasons that you're coming off as dramatic/high maintenance/awful is that you are saying you want something (a relationship) but at the same time you are saying (through your explanations and justifications and back story) that you don't actually want that. That's just classic red-flag drama queen toxicity. So I'd suggest that you have two options: 1. If you want what you say you want, be a good aunt altruistically and stop the bean counting and negativity. or 2. Accept that maybe you don't want that after all and just be a woman who dislikes her SIL and isn't close to that side of the family. Both are fine. Pick your poison. But stop doing what you're doing. [/quote]
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