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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I haven't read all the replies so I'm sorry if this already came up, but my advice to you is for you to turn to God for help for yourself. I know this is cliche but you need help recognizing what you can control and what you can't. You can't control him or his behavior and you need to try and not judge him.

Try and remember that we are all flawed. His flaws include this behavior and hypocrisy. He is pretending (and maybe even pretending to himself) that he's back to being that Christian morally upstanding person. But you can't change his ignorance.

My suggestion is that you work on understanding that he has issues that you have no control over nor do you have the ability to change him. I equate it to those "Christians" that oppose LGBTQ+ communities. They are ignorant of God's complete love of everyone and there's nothing I can say to change their minds (as much as I try). In other words, you have to be the bigger person and rise above it. What you can do is teach your children that everyone is welcome in church - even if they sin, make mistakes, or whatever. I wouldn't specifically call out your ex for obvious reasons, but inside your head you need to know that God loves, and the church accepts his flawed, sinned self.

I wish you the best.[/quote]

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