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[quote=Anonymous]People presumably have their different reasons, but the main camps of rationale for cheating seem to be (1) just physical, (2) need for emotional connection (with or without a physical component) or (3) Camp 1 preying on Camp 2 (or on someone who doesn’t even know the guy is married). Within Camp 3, the rationales seem to be (A) a need to boost or soothe their ego, without much or any concern for others, (B) getting off on the power of having their cake and eating it too, aka “sense of entitlement,” and/or (C) getting off on the power of duping their spouse, AP, etc. and getting away with it, aka “Duper’s Delight.” For the latter, the cheater may feel superior and perhaps even relish in the unrequited pining the AP is doing or the profound hurt inflicted on the spouse but she still stays with him despite his affairs. None of this is good, but Camp C.3 is the worst IMO. [/quote]
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