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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Had a few married lovers when I was young. Never thought about the wife. It was just for fun - never thought of anything serious and I know they didn’t either. They are all still married, last I looked. I think wives and lovers really exist in different non overlapping universes. [/quote]

Are you or have you ever been married? Or just in a committed relationship? If so, do you shrug off the idea that your spouse or significant other might be screwing other people, and you're just fine with that now that you're the wife/SO? Asking seriously. I wonder if you think, that was in the "wild oats" days and of course now I'm special enough that my SO and I don't need "just for fun" sex with others. Either that, or you're in whatever you call an open relationship etc. and you live with an SO but both have sex whenever, with anyone. So, how did your youthful AP flings translate now that you're older, if you do any kind of committed relationship yourself? [/quote]

I’m married with children. I don’t think anyone is special enough to dull the allure of sleeping with a new person.  I’m much older now and in the context of a long term marriage, I don’t think physical infidelity is a colossal deal breaker.  Marriage is not primarily about sex for me. In fact, I know my DH has had flings. I didn’t but not out of any deep conviction, just didn’t get around to it. If I did, it would not affect my marriage. [/quote]

You’re too rational for posters on here.  This is going to go over their head. [/quote]

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