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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Np, and I am wired like you, op. I would not sleep with a married man; it's just not something I want on my resume/conscious.

I do agree with other PPs that the responsibility largely falls on the cheating spouse. However, being complicit in the indecency absolutely detracts from the other party's character.

Years ago, a relative of mine openly dealt with a married man. He eventually divorced his wife, and they married two weeks after the divorce was final. [b]He did the same thing to my relative within five years, and they divorced. I was always baffled at how hurt and devastated she was that her marriage came undone given her role in the first marriage's demise.[/b] [/quote]

This, the bold. The OW often thinks she's special, she rescued him from his unhappy marriage, etc. But cheaters are going to cheat again in many, many cases. I won't say, "in every case," because I hate broad universal claims like that, and surely there are some couples out there where they started as APs and actually have a faithful relationship when they become a public couple. (Maybe.) But there's a reason for the saying, [b]if he'd cheat with you, he'd cheat on you[/b].
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Of course it depends, but some men actually do end up in second or third marriage that do not result in any cheating.  A lot of times they are taken to the cleaners and learn the hard way that it’s not worth it.  They figure out the second wife is just like the first one.  They are behind financially from divorcing the first wife.  This was all a lot of trouble and they sit tight and don’t do the same thing all over again. [/quote]

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