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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Np, and I am wired like you, op. I would not sleep with a married man; it's just not something I want on my resume/conscious.

I do agree with other PPs that the responsibility largely falls on the cheating spouse. However, being complicit in the indecency absolutely detracts from the other party's character.

Years ago, a relative of mine openly dealt with a married man. He eventually divorced his wife, and they married two weeks after the divorce was final. [b]He did the same thing to my relative within five years, and they divorced. I was always baffled at how hurt and devastated she was that her marriage came undone given her role in the first marriage's demise.[/b] [/quote]

This, the bold. The OW often thinks she's special, she rescued him from his unhappy marriage, etc. But cheaters are going to cheat again in many, many cases. I won't say, "in every case," because I hate broad universal claims like that, and surely there are some couples out there where they started as APs and actually have a faithful relationship when they become a public couple. (Maybe.) But there's a reason for the saying, if he'd cheat with you, he'd cheat on you.[/quote]

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