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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ugh, at one miserable point in my miserable marriage, I began sexting with men online.  It was fun and I personally didn’t consider it cheating, just more of a pretend fantasy.

Eventually I landed on a married man and it was awful from start to finish.  For one thing, he was funny and smart and sweet and we had a lot in common.  I had feelings for him and pretended I didn’t.  [b]From what he told me, his marriage was less catastrophic than mine but I still believe it was bad.  [/b]He admitted his wife wasn’t a bad person but that she refused to do marriage counseling with him and they only had sex 2-3 times per year.  Maybe true, maybe not.  I don’t think he had much reason to lie, honestly, some woman you are sexting with online is not going to be a paragon of virtue needing a lot of moral justification.

I did think about his wife and kids and felt awful about the whole thing the whole time.  I liked him so much and I knew it was going to escalate and there could be no good outcome, so I slowly disengaged and eventually blocked him.  [/quote]

Similar experience.  The man I met had a very fancy lifestyle and he is very into appearances.  Good looking wife, beautiful homes, expensive artwork etc.  But it became obvious over time that he was missing something.  He loved to talk with me and I don’t see how someone in a great marriage would be down for talking to a random woman ad nauseam.

I was interested in talking to him because my marriage was in a bad place.  Abuse, lies, cheating etc.  I was simply lonely.  I enjoyed speaking to this man and having someone be kind to me.

It ended because it drove me crazy and I knew I’d eventually get caught.  I will miss him for the rest of my life.  If I could do it all over again, I would have never married my DH or had children.  [/quote]

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