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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I disagree with a lot of people here. I would take the high road and I personally would even send a gift if you like him. I would not start drama. It is not anyone's place to demand they invite people if they are paying for it.

OP, do you get along with his fiance? Did you dislike her this much before? Maybe she sensed it?

Life is short and very tragic. Allow people to have their happy days and be gracious. [b]I would see this as a sign you are not going to be close with them[/b], but if I saw them at an event I would be polite, just distant.

If the relationship between him and his fiance isn't meant to be, let that happen organically. Don't go setting off problems by starting a big family tah-do. You are allowed to feel hurt and process those feelings, but don't rain on their parade.

We eloped and I am so glad we did.[/quote]

Did you not read the original post? OP grew up in the same house as her half-brother for several years and they just rented a house together on vacation. [/quote]

You can grown up in the same house as siblings and not be close. Renting a house together may or may not mean something? How many people rented? Did stepmom fund it and invite everyone? Did everyone pay their own way? OP obviously thinks they are much closer than they are. There is something missing. Are the cousins closer in age to the couple? OP talks in extremes she claims everything is great except she paints the finance in a 1-dimensional highly superficial way. People don't hide their dislike well.

How many people at the wedding? Something is missing here. It isn't all half brother bad, OP good.[/quote]

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