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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I can completely relate. When people wrong me, or behave badly, I usually trip over myself to apologize to them. Then later, I am furious at myself. Did you by chance grow up in an environment where an adult had anger issues? I sure did. A therapist told me that flight and fight or not the only reflexes developed when you live with abuse. Fawn and freeze are also common. There’s lots of information available if you Google. I am a master level fawner, and it’s awful and humiliating, and also a really hard habit to break. I may be off-base, but in case I’m not, I wanted to mention it. Forgive yourself, OP. You can practice for next time. But mostly, forgive yourself.[/quote] Yes I did. I had to walk around on eggshells around my father. I have put so much effort into myself, especially regarding parenting, to not be him. [/quote]
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