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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My friend and her husband both identify as queer. I still don’t totally understand what they mean by that but I accept and love them. They are poly and very into kink so my assumption is those elements are what they identify with as queer but they have never actually said that to me.

My sister identifies as queer also- and she sleeps exclusively with women. She doesn’t like the word “lesbian” and has never explained her reasoning on that. She has really strong feelings about heterosexual couples identifying as queer based on the fact that they are into kink.

Personally, I am going to accept any label you give yourself. Truly takes no effort on my part and doesn’t impact my life in anyway. [/quote]

I personally don't consider people that are cisgender and heterosexual that are into kink or are poly to be queer.  Many queer people are into those things but those things along aren't normally considered queer.  For example, if the husband is attracted to women but also loves sucking dick then yes I consider him queer.  Even if he's in a straight marriage.  If he is poly but only dates other women then it's just a straight man in an open marriage.  Same for the wife but opposite.

Even worse, some of these couples that claim to be queer are actually queerphobic.  Like a cishet man in poly marriage scared to death that someone might think he's gay.[/quote]

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