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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Women should not expect their husbands to pay debts incurred prior to marriage.  We aren't chattel and we can pay our own way.  [/quote]

Alright, I'm sick of these posts denigrating this woman in this manner. Suggesting she is "milking" her future DH. Suggesting she'll want to SAH with kids while her DH pays them off. NONE of this is supported by the OP and it is more than a little sexist across the board.

The kid was 18 and made financial decisions that maybe she ought not have, maybe there were better options, maybe she misdjudged or changed her major . . . . lots of people make this choice. Women and men. These are kids that are making important decisions and maybe are not prepared to do. Maybe her parents didn't counsel her or didn't know. Her school debt is not a moral indictment on her character or her intelligence. You people are gross.

OP, I think you're approaching this correctly. Stay out of it but offer to help and what you've offered is extremely kind and generous. I would hope they take you up on it. [/quote]

+1.[/quote]

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