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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What MIL thinks she gets equal access to the new mother as the mother's mother gets? That is never the case. Both MIL and DH are expecting you to do something no other new mother does. Have you told him that? [/quote]

MIL doesn't want equal access to the new mother. She wants, and is entitled to, equal access to db.[/quote]

The baby is not coming out of her vagina, so no, she's not entitled to anything regarding the baby.[/quote]

Well, the FATHER of the baby is and he wants his parents to meet his child.[/quote]

That doesn't mean he's entitled to getting everything he wants. The OP and her husband had an equal part in creating the child, but you're being ignorant (perhaps willfully so) if you don't think that what OP will be going through giving birth to their child is different from what her husband will experience. The compromises she has suggested sound like good ones. It's sad that the OP's husband is so obsessed with what he wants that he's disregarding how the mother of his child will feel after she goes through a childbirth- something he'll never experience.[/quote]

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