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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]They have an annual Christmas party, we saw tons of cars outside their house this year and clearly we weren't invited. Then I ran into my neighbor on the sidewalk taking our her recycling and she mentioned how much recycling she had from the party. so I teasingly said I guess we didn't make the list this year! -- we have a joking rapport -- and she said "Oh yes we were just trying to keep it small." Well it wasn't small and I wonder what we did to get cut from the list? I just feel weird about it and like I did something wrong?[/quote] Let it go. Maybe you think you have a joking rapport with her and she actually doesn’t enjoy it or finds your comments over the line. Saying “I guess we didn’t make the list this year” isn’t going to make it more likely that you will be invited next year unless it’s out of pity. I would have said, “It sounds like a great party,” and I would have meant it. We have many gatherings without inviting neighbors we like, as do they. [/quote] Neighbor was rude af to bring it up to someone who was clearly cut from the list this year. She doesn't have to invite OP, but that was a jerk move of the neighbor. [/quote]
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