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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Op here. Yes[/quote]

OP I'm a doc too. My H also cheated. As you consider your options, remember that practicing medicine allows us economic freedom to make the choices we need to. I'm so sorry your H disappointed you. I got out because I could. I can't imagine not having the freedom to make that choice. You will do what's best for you and your children but remember that our careers give us options. You don't have to live with deception. If he's a good father he'll still be a good father, even if he's a bad husband. Above all: you didn't cause this.[/quote]

Thank you for the moral support. I know I am fortunate to have options and be financially secure. I just don't want my kids to grow up with divorced parents. The thought kills me. I know people do it everyday. But I just can't imagining bringing that pain on my children and would do anything to avoid it. I feel sick and like everything I have tried to build in my life has just gone up in flames.[/quote]

It's common for kids to grow up with divorced parents (I did),  but it's also common for a spouse to stay in a bad marriage so that kids don't have to grow up with divorced parents. You have two bad options and I'm sorry for that, but regardless of what you wind up doing you aren't going to be alone in your choice. [/quote]

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