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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Op here. Yes[/quote]

OP I'm a doc too. My H also cheated. As you consider your options, remember that practicing medicine allows us economic freedom to make the choices we need to. I'm so sorry your H disappointed you. I got out because I could. I can't imagine not having the freedom to make that choice. You will do what's best for you and your children but remember that our careers give us options. You don't have to live with deception. If he's a good father he'll still be a good father, even if he's a bad husband. Above all: you didn't cause this.[/quote]

Thank you for the moral support. I know I am fortunate to have options and be financially secure. I just don't want my kids to grow up with divorced parents. The thought kills me. I know people do it everyday. But I just can't imagining bringing that pain on my children and would do anything to avoid it. I feel sick and like everything I have tried to build in my life has just gone up in flames.[/quote]

Btw if you are divorced, please don't read this as me being judgmental of divorce. I know no one ever sets out looking to get divorced, and that often you don't have a choice in the matter. I know there are lots of reasons for it and have had friends where I know divorce was the right thing for everyone. But at this moment I am just so filled with pain and thinking about the pain my children might experience in a divorce is gutting me. My head is spinning trying to think of how to make everything OK for them.[/quote]

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