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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think part of it is that boys used to just see/get crushes on girls by seeing them in real life, so all cute/pretty girls were basically on equal footing. Now there are girls willing to expose themselves on social media in bathing suits, push up bras, sexy poses, etc and other girls not willing to do that because they think it's pathetic and/or know their parents will kill them. The ones who put themselves out there on social media are sending the message loud and clear that they want attention from boys, and so, naturally, that's who teenage boys focus on.

OP -- like others have said, if your daughter wants to date or hang out with a boy, she needs to focus on the non-douchebag boys, ie, not your son's group of friends. There are smart, athletic, funny, handsome boys who are like your daughter and her friends. They are interested in girls, but a little shy. I know because I have one![/quote]

I am glad you brought this up. My daughter had a friend group she moved away from and I applaud her. She showed me their titktoks. First off, not sure if it's a filter or not, but besides plastic surgery, looks like some are already getting lip injections. Bright, athletic girls are on there wearing lingerie like dresses or crop tops mouthing words to to songs about sex and blow jobs as they make sexy eyes and even do hand job motions. It's like an ad for an escort. There is one where they are hanging with a group of guys and everyone is dancing. The guys pretend to do oral sex on eachother in dance. Girls will grab eachother's boobs from behind. These same kids, especially the boys act all angelic around their mommies. I know some of them.

I think it will be frightening to see what happens in this group with Roe v Wade being turned over. My friend in highschool had 4 brothers who were popular athletes. They were taught about birth control early and often and given condoms galore by the parents. They were told abortions would be paid for no questions asked. The parents funded quite a few abortions between highschool and college. Teenagers are notoriously impulsive so it's hard enough to get them to use birth control properly. Now that it's harder to get an abortion and it involves traveling out of state I fear for these young people making poor choices and not fully understanding potential consequences.

Teenage boys have always been jerkish about about girls-some of them at least. Their hormones are raging and the more a girl advertises she might put out the more attention she can get. They want to experience sex and so do the girls and they don't have enough life experience to know they are playing with fire sleeping around. Sure there are nice kids getting to know eachother, dating for a long time and being more cautious about sex, but there is a whole F me culture going on online that is scary and I hope my kids continue to stay away from that crowd.[/quote]

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