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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]NJ/NY wedding - my understanding is that registry gifts are for engagement parties and showers. People bring $$$ to the wedding.

I grew up in the Midwest OP and got married in my hometown- so I would have 100% understood your generous gift to be the wedding gift. Where I am from a shower gift is is something under $50 or even under $25 like a mixing bowl or a set of oven mitts.

I married into an Italian family from NJ and we hardly got anything we registered for and got mostly cash and checks. [/quote]

Another Midwesterner here. Gifts are for the shower and cash is for the wedding in my Eastern Euro community.[/quote]

Middle aged Hoosier here.  I don't recall ever attending a wedding shower, only bridal showers where gifts were of a personal nature for the bride.  What would you give at a wedding shower that you wouldn't give for the wedding?  Giving cash would be considered incredibly rude.[/quote]

What's a wedding shower? I'm from the midwest and the only wedding events where gifts may be given that I'm aware of are: 
1) engagement party
2) bridal shower
3) bachelorette party
4) wedding

Shower gifts are from the registry, personal items for the bride are for the bachelorette, and cash for the wedding, which is most definitely not rude where I come from, next door to Indiana. I'm not sure what the distinction between wedding shower and bridal shower is.[/quote]

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