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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He sounds deeply entitled, immature and ungrateful. I would start looking for someone who wants an equal partner and not a nurse.[/quote] Amazing. :roll: Reminder that DCUM women often say that women are the more "empathetic" sex and that men are trash because they are likely to abandon their wives if they become seriously ill.[/quote] That’s not something DCUM says, it’s something statistics say [b][Reading what women post on DCUM Relationships gives me very serious doubt about those "statistics". Total lack of empathy, total lack of interest in anything other than "what is my husband doing for me [i]right now[/i]."][/b] OP fed and sheltered her spouse while he underwent chemo. Now he’s (after the fact) saying she didn’t do enough and wants to punish her by leaving her without money when he dies. Meanwhile she never restricted his access to her money while he lived. [/quote] "I fed and sheltered you for years and never restricted your access to my money, but now you say I didn't do enough and you want to punish me financially" is pretty much every divorced husband ever. Cry me a river.[/quote] Right that’s why there was an article to back up the statistics. Not your feefees. I don’t think the OP should cry, I think she should consider her support for her husband a sunk cost, stop working immediately (while preserving her network for later) and file for divorce herself. If the people who think she wasn’t financially supporting him are correct, she won’t have any alimony to pay. If the people who assume she was are correct, she will have reduced alimony based on her new financial situation, and her children will be taken care of by their fathers life insurance when he passes. Win-win. [/quote]
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