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[quote=Anonymous]NP. I've lived this relationship before. OP is correct to ignore and block.  This is what this guy is doing:

He knows OP is into him.  She broke it off because he won't commit, and presumably he exhibited other flakey behavior. He put her on the shelf to see if she'd relent and come crawling back to him.  She didn't, so he sent her a few texts but she still didn't reply. Not one to be ignored, he wants to key in on her preexisting feelings for him to lure her back in and be the one to dump her.

The wine bottle text is a flashy way to get her attention. It looks romantic. The text has intrigue.  He makes it seem like maybe, just maybe, during the ensuing three months he did a 180 and the "things have changed a lot for me" could mean - maybe - that he's really into OP after all. Maybe.

The reality is that text says nothing and commits to nothing and means nothing.  Only actual sincere words backed up by actions mean anything.  Dollars to donuts if OP got together with this guy again he quickly would disappoint her. Like meet up with her, maybe hook up then afterward talk about this great girl he met and how OP inspired him to seek a deeper relationship - with this other woman.

The wine bottle text is a catfish technique to reel OP in only to get her hopes up then drop her as payback for cutting it off with him and ignoring his texts.  [/quote]

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