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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. This has turned into a really meaningful discussion and I appreciate all of your input! To the PP above— I do feel like my BF is being controlling or manipulative in making these requests. It’s just a feeling I get. Maybe he isn’t. He wants what he wants, and he wants me to fit into that vision he has for his life. He clearly doesn’t want to be with someone who is extremely job-focused. We are definitely at different points in our lives. I’m not ready to fulfill that traditional female role of self-sacrifice — I need to protect my future self. As much as I love him, I don’t see a way it can work if he is not willing to accept a partner who can’t focus on him most of the time. [/quote]
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