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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I would get together with the parents of the girl and go through all of these things together -- insurance for girlfriend, your son. the baby -- cost of daycare, housing if she and the baby will not live with them for the next 18 years, cost of college. Tell them you will not support their daughter or your grandchild but that you will support your son through college for four years in order that HE may better provide for them after he is 22 and has graduated college. You will help support their daughter until your son turns 18, but after that, they need to contact him, not you. GIve the parents the name of some good right-to-life groups that help teens who are pregnant with financial assistance for their babies -- there must be tons out there. Also provide information on WIC and food stamps, etc. It is fine for the girl to decide that she wants to continue this pregnancy and raise the baby, but she needs to have a very clear understanding of how expensive babies and children are, and not expect any help from you. She can expect financial help from your son, but he is not in a position to give very much.[/quote]
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