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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Self-centered are the parents who divorced while expecting that they won’t shoulder any of the inconvenience. A lot of these so-called parents could use a dose of shut up. That’s not being a martyr. That’s an adult child sick of listening to their parents’ childish whining.[/quote] Yes, because it certainly is not an inconvenience for the parents to go through the huge changes that divorce brings into their lives (who you live with, where you live, the finances etc etc + divorces tend to be emotionally difficult even when they're 'easy'). That is NOTHING compared to you having to visit two households during Christmas![/quote] The fact that you fail to see how everything you listed above also trickles down to the children involved (at home or adult) shows just how self-centered you are. Easy to see why your marriage didn’t last. If your finances are so bad, are you going to quietly live in poverty, [b]or are you going to guilt your children into supporting you somehow[/b]. Given your self-righteous grievances, you don’t come across as someone who will help themselves.[/quote] you seem to think ONLY mentally ill parents divorce. It's not a given that a divored parent acts this way (see bolded above about guilting their child). Maybe yours did, but not all do.[/quote]
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